Monday, June 29, 2009

" 50 " WAYS TO LOVE YOUR PARTNER




1. Love yourself first
2. Start each day with a hug
3. Serve breakfast in bed
4. Say "I love you" every time you part ways
5. Compliment and appreciate freely and often
6. Appreciate and celebrate your differences
7. Live each day as if its your last
8. Write unexpected love letters
9. Plant a seed together and nurture it to maturity
10. Go on a date once every week
11. Send flowers for no reason
12. Accept and love each others family and friends.
13. Make little signs that say I love you and post them all over the house
14. Stop and smell the roses.
15. Kiss unexpectedly.
16. Seek out beautiful sunsets together
17. Apologize sincerely
18. Be forgiving
19. Remember the day you feel in love and recreate it
20. Hold each others hands always
21. Say I love you with your eyes
22.Let her cry in your arms
23. Tell him you understand
24. Drink toast of love and commitment
25. Do something arousing
26. Let her give you directions when you’re lost
27. Laugh at his or her jokes (although sometimes its not that funny)
28. Appreciate each others inner beauty
29. Do the other persons chores for a day
30. Encourage wonderful dreams and aspirations
31. Commit a public display of affection
32. Give a Loving Massage with no strings attached
33. Start a love journal and record your special moments
34. Calm each others fears
35. Walk barefoot on the beach together
36. Ask her to marry you again
37. Say YES
38. Respect each other
39. Be your partners biggest fan
40. Give the love your partner wants to receive
41. Give the love you want to receive
42. Show interest in the others work
43. Work on a project together
44. Build a fort with blankets
45. Swing as high as you can on a swingset by moonlight
46. Have a picnic indoors on a rainy day
47. Never go to bed mad
48. Put your partners first on your prayers
49. Kiss each others goodnight
50. Sleep like spoons.



BEWARE: PC REPUBLIC has a "NO RETURN, NO EXCHANGE" policy


Did you know that PC republic has a no return and exchange policy??? true… try to buy something in that store and bring it back and they will not refund it no matter how valid your reason is…. They will only insist of replacing the item but they will not refund your money….

“what if the item that you bought is really not working and you already losses the trust of replacing the same item in the same store” They will not listen, after you bursting out or saying what you think and feel, the people incharge will only look in your face and be happy if they apologize because they will only just say “i cannot refund your money ma’am” they’re bunch of professional unprofessionals…..

Two weeks ago, my mom saw this laptop worth P7000 in PC Republic Sta Lucia, she immediately told me to check it… because she really needed a computer that she can bring anywhere… my mom is not a savvy, technical user, in fact she is just using my PC only to create word and excel documents and to play her favorite game scrabble…. so basic right?

So when i checked the laptop, the spex are P3, 700 Mhz, 192 mb RAM,8 mb AGP, 10″x8′ screen….. well good enough for basic users…. the person who assisted me that day is nice enough to tell me that the battery has small defect but its working… well i said its ok, i know that low spex laptop reallly has that short span of usage even after charging for hours, so the tendency is you always have to plug it for maximum usage….

So i was exited to tell my mom about it and she was excited to hear it, i did set her expectation that the spex of that laptop is way below the spex of my PC but she is only going to use it for minor things so it will work. Having said that my mom gave me right away the P7000, so i bought the laptop.

On the receipt given to me, the laptops warranty is 3 months, no warranty for the battery, and you can upgrade it to PC if you want to in a span of 1 month. So Geleen told me (store supervisor) “Ma’am sign kayo dito” so i did sign receipt, later did i found out that it was not an O.R.

When i arrived home, its already 7:00 PM, i told my mom to charge it first, so the charging took around 5 hours until it reaches a 100%, *imagine my moms excitement to use it* and an amazing thing happen, my mom turned on the laptop, i helped personalized her profile, and she’s about to start now organizing her files to it, take note, it’s still plug in to the charger, so i went now to my room upstairs, because my mom is already doing her normal computer stuff,and now my mom removed the charger, 1 min left, 2 min, 3 min and on the 6th min my mom called me in a loud voice…BOG!!! “NAMATAY SI LAPTOP” my mom is furious about it of course!!!!

That personel told me that there is a minor defect on the battery but is this what he call MINOR DEFECT the laptop cannot be use even for good 10 min !!!! Unbelievable!!!! My mom told me to bring it back to the store.

So the following day, my husband and i went back to PC Rep to remedy the situation, and then the person who assisted me the other day told me… “sabi ko sa inyo ma’am may defect po yang battery eh” huh???? im speechless!!!! to me it seems that he’s blaming me buying that laptop from there store!!!grrrr....

Im getting furious already so i let my husband talk to them, so my husband said just replace the item with working one, geleen (store supervisor) said : sir, all of the items are of the same battery problem. We told your wife yesterday that it has a problem.

husband ko: well we never expect that battery duration is just like that… it’s not a minor battery problem, it a big problem!!! If you cannot replace this with a better one then please refund our money!!! Since we brought the item back in less than 24 HRS.

geleen: Sir its not possible, but if you want to you can replace it to a desktop!!!

husband ko: We have 2 PCs in our house, do you think we need another one? here’s your laptop, refund my money!!! since you are the supervisor you can easily decide for it!!! (but she is a powerless supervisor)

geleen: i need to talk to the main office for it… ill call you tommorow regarding this sir.
Since it’s already late, then we decided to go home, leaving the laptop, since my mom dont want it already and without the money.

The next day, afternoon passed, my husband went home from work already around 5 PM and still no call, ” no word of honor” so my husband called them, and they only said still on the process, we will call you the tommorow!!!

2nd day, called my husband at work just to check if they called him already and not yet…. so my husband called them again and geleen is on a meeting, that was around 2:00 PM,and then my husband called again around 4PM, and guess what she is still on a meeting… so around 6pm she still on a meeting!!! it will never end!!!! hahhahhahahha…. so what my husband did, he get the number of the main office one of geleens staff has no choice but to give the number.

3rd day, jake (husband) called the main office already and talked with maki. Still nothing happened.

4th day, geleen this time called our house, and they will refund the money less than 12%, WHAT!!!! so thats (-) P840.

We did not agree to it of course, they said that is the only refund they can give!!!

We called DTI about it expecting that they will do something abnout it, but its only an expectation. They never give any suggestion or something, they just said that they will report it to the proper office and have it on file. That’s it.
PC Rep is not afraid of DTI, dont know why?

5th day, still no refund!!!! so just to pacify everything, i told my mom to get again the laptop nalang since we are losing hope that something will happen about it, my mom was conviced me promising to find a way replacing the battey or fixing the battery on a another store or something.

6th day, my husband called PC Rep, to get again the item, since nothing is happening. By the way, Maki the main office manager, texted my husband that there are new items alike to be delivered today, and it brings good feeling, but dissappointment again, when we arrived at the store, there are no new delivery, the staffs are unaware of the new delivery and they did not know that we are about to choose to the new deliveries. “NO PROPER COMMUNICATION” well maki told us that the store is aware already. “LIAR”

So after 6 days of trying and trying and trying to get the refund, we end at getting the back the same old laptop with “MINOR” battery defect!!!!

And one more thing, PC Republic is not issuing an official receipt, the day that we brought back the laptop i asked for the official receipt since i found out lately that the receipt i had was only a sales order receipt, and they said that that was the only receipt they are giving!!! It is against the law!!!!

But it is too late already for us to check, and we are too tired a to argue,WE ARE FRUSTRATED AND EXAUSTED!!!!

And on the receipt itself has a small printed terms that is not obvious. And part of that terms stated “if either of the parties submit any legal action in the courts of cainta rizal, PC Rep will charged us “buyer/s” the 25% of the attorney’s fee and cost of their collection to us “buyers”
So this just means that if you file a case against them on court, you will also pay the 25% of their attorneys fee. grrrr!!!

They are too much!!! no customer service, liars, customers should be treated right all the time!!!!

So just be careful when you buy things on this store, Because it did happen to me so hopefully this will serve as an eye opener to all customers and buyers of PC REPUBLIC or any establishments, to always be careful in buying expensive things, ask for the OFFICIAL RECEIPT always and have them write down everything in the O.R., all the things both parties agreed on so that this will not happen to you also.

A lesson learned in a hard way!!!!! NO, i will not recommend their store to anyone again, and if i will rate their customer service and my satisfaction to them as a customer in a 1:10 ratio, its below 3%.

So beware of PC REPUBLIC STORES they might do the same thing to you also.


Attitude Is Everything



Jerry was the kind of guy you love to hate. He was always in a good mood and always had something positive to say. When someone would ask him how he was doing, he would reply, "If I were any better, I would be twins!"

He was a unique manager because he had several waiters who had followed him around from restaurant to restaurant. The reason the waiters followed Jerry was because of his attitude. He was a natural motivator. If an employee was having a bad day, Jerry was there telling the employee how to look on the positive side of the situation.

Seeing this style really made me curious, so one day I went up to Jerry and asked him, "I don't get it! You can't be a positive person all of the time. How do you do it?"
Jerry replied, "Each morning I wake up and say to myself, 'Jerry, you have two choices today. You can choose to be in a good mood or you can choose to be in a bad mood.' I choose to be in a good mood. Each time something bad happens, I can choose to be a victim or I can choose to learn from it. I choose to learn from it. Every time someone comes to me complaining, I can choose to accept their complaining or I can point out the positive side of life. I choose the positive side of life."

"Yeah, right, it's not that easy," I protested.
"Yes, it is," Jerry said. "Life is all about choices. When you cut way all the junk, every situation is a choice. You choose how you react to situations. You choose how people will affect your mood. You choose to be in a good mood or bad mood. The bottom line: It's your choice how you live life."

I reflected on what Jerry said. Soon thereafter, I left the restaurant industry to start my own business. We lost touch, but I often thought about him when I made a choice about life instead of reacting to it.

Several years later, I heard that Jerry did something you are never supposed to do in a restaurant business: he left the back door open one morning and was held up at gunpoint by three armed robbers. While trying to open the safe, his hand, shaking from nervousness, slipped off the combination. The robbers panicked and shot him. Luckily, Jerry was found relatively quickly and rushed to the local trauma center.

After 18 hours of surgery and weeks of intensive care, Jerry was released from the hospital with fragments of the bullets still in his body.

I saw Jerry about six months after the accident. When I asked him how he was, he replied, "If I were any better, I'd be twins. Wanna see my scars?"

I declined to see his wounds, but did ask him what had gone through his mind as the robbery took place. "The first thing that went through my mind was that I should have locked the back door," Jerry replied. "Then, as I lay on the floor, I remembered that I had two choices: I could choose to live, or I could choose to die. I chose to live."

"Weren't you scared? Did you lose consciousness?" I asked.
Jerry continued, "The paramedics were great. They kept telling me I was going to be fine. But when they wheeled me into the emergency room and I saw the expressions on the faces of the doctors and nurses, I got really scared. In their eyes, I read, 'He's a dead man.'
"I knew I needed to take action."

"What did you do?" I asked.

"Well, there was a big, burly nurse shouting questions at me," said Jerry. "She asked if I was allergic to anything. 'Yes,' I replied. The doctors and nurses stopped working as they waited for my reply. I took a deep breathe and yelled, 'Bullets!' Over their laughter, I told them. 'I am choosing to live. Operate on me as if I am alive, not dead."

Jerry lived thanks to the skill of his doctors, but also because of his amazing attitude.

I learned from him that every day we have the choice to live fully. Attitude, after all, is everything.



Make Me Whole

Just wanted to share this very special song to my husband. This is one of our wedding songs and this song means so much.

"Make Me Whole"

Darling I want you to listenI stayed up all night,
so I could get this thing right
And I don't think there's anything missing
Cause a person like you,
made it easy to do I've waited for so long, to sing to you this song

Cause your eyes are the windows to heaven
Your smile could heal a million souls
Your love completes my existence
You're the other half that makes me whole
You're the only other half that makes me whole
I think the angels are your brothers
They told you about me, said you're just what she needs
And I find myself thanking your mother For giving birth to a saint
My spirit flies when I say your name
If there's one thing that's true
It's that I was born to love you

Cause your eyes are the windows to heaven
Your smile could heal a million souls
Your love completes my existence
You're the other half that makes me whole
You're the only other half that makes me whole
You make my dreamsCome true over and, over again

And I honestly truly believe You and me are written in the stars
I live my whole life throughTo giving thanks to you
Cause your eyes are the windows to heaven
Your smile could heal a million souls
Your love completes my existence
You're the other half that makes me whole
You're the only other half that makes me whole

An Act Of Kindness

An Act Of Kindness

He was driving home one evening, on a two-lane country road. Work, in this small mid-western community, was almost as slow as his beat-up Pontiac. But he never quit looking. Ever since the Levis factory closed, he'd been unemployed, and with winter raging on, the chill had finally hit home. It was a lonely road. Not very many people had a reason to be on it, unless they were leaving. Most of his friends had already left. They had families to feed and dreams to fulfill. But he stayed on. After all, this was where he buried his mother and father. He was born here and knew the country.

He could go down this road blind, and tell you what was on either side, and with his headlights not working, that came in handy. It was starting to get dark and light snow flurries were coming down. He'd better get a move on. You know, he almost didn't see the old lady, stranded on the side of the road. But even in the dim light of day, he could see she needed help. So he pulled up in front of her Mercedes and got out. His Pontiac was still sputtering when he approached her.Even with the smile on his face, she was worried. No one had stopped to help for the last hour or so. Was he going to hurt her? He didn't look safe, he looked poor and hungry. He could see that she was frightened, standing out there in the cold. He knew how she felt. It was that chill that only fear can put in you. He said, "I'm here to help you m'am. Why don't you wait in the car where it's warm. By the way, my name is Joe."

Well, all she had was a flat tire, but for an old lady, that was bad enough Joe crawled under the car looking for a place to put the jack, skinning his knuckles a time or two. Soon he was able to change the tire. But he had to get dirty and his hands hurt. As he was tightening up the lug nuts, she rolled down her window and began to talk to him. She told him that she was from St. Louis and was only just passing through. She couldn't thank him enough for coming to her aid. Joe just smiled as he closed her trunk.

She asked him how much she owed him. Any amount would have been alright with her. She had already imagined all the awful things that could have happened had he not stopped. Joe never thought twice about the money. This was not a job to him. This was helping someone in need, and God knows there were plenty who had given him a hand in the past. He had lived his whole life that way, and it never occurred to him to act any other way. He told her that if she really wanted to pay him back, the next time she saw someone who needed help, she could give that person the assistance that they needed, and Joe added "...and think of me".

He waited until she started her car and drove off. It had been a cold and depressing day, but he felt good as he headed for home, disappearing into the twilight. A few miles down the road the lady saw a small cafe. She went in to grab a bite to eat, and take the chill off before she made the last leg of her trip home. It was a dingy looking restaurant. Outside were two old gas pumps. The whole scene was unfamiliar to her. The cash register was like the telephone of an out of work actor, it didn't ring much.

Her waitress came over and brought a clean towel to wipe her wet hair. She had a sweet smile, one that even being on her feet for the whole day couldn't erase. The lady noticed that the waitress was nearly eight months pregnant, but she never let the strain and aches change her attitude. The old lady wondered how someone who had so little could be so giving to a stranger. Then she remembered Joe.

After the lady finished her meal, and the waitress went to get her change from a hundred dollar bill, the lady slipped right out the door. She was gone by the time the waitress came back. She wondered where the lady could be, then she noticed something written on a napkin. There were tears in her eyes, when she read what the lady wrote. It said, "You don't owe me a thing, I've been there too. Someone once helped me out, the way I'm helping you. If you really want to pay me back, here's what you do. Don't let the chain of love end with you."

Well, there were tables to clear, sugar bowls to fill, and people to serve, but the waitress made it through another day. That night when she got home from work and climbed into bed, she was thinking about the money and what the lady had written. How could she have known how much she and her husband needed it? With the baby due next month, it was going to be hard. She knew how worried her husband was, and as he lay sleeping next to her, she gave him a soft kiss and whispered soft and low, "Everything's gonna be alright, I love you Joe."

:Contributed By Lee Ryan Miller